Thursday, December 26, 2013

Smiling

I keep getting complimented on my ability to stay positive through all of this.
Last month, the students gave me the Silver Shield Award.  The student who nominated me announced to the entire student body that  I had suffered a terrible tragedy this year, but that you would never know it because I come to school in a great mood every day.  Last night - on Christmas night - my facebook status simply said Life is awesome, and I got an incredibly kind post from a cousin explaining it was awesome because I choose to look at that positive.
I'm going to admit a few things about all of this...
1 - I know this is one of my greatest strengths.  I am a happy person.  I am optimistic and energetic 99.9% of the time.  I know that people value that, especially the older I get.
2 - I never go more than five minutes without thinking about the fire and our loss and, honestly, feeling insanely sad about it. I am on the brink of tears more often than people realize. I am so deeply sad - sadder than I have ever in my life felt - and it doesn't seem to get any easier with time. 

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